- Adsense: don't worry, just do it, and preferably including in between the posts - Affiliates: use affiliate links for your posts and hold yourself the right to use affiliate links for any link (if I link to a book I like in Amazon you can change the URL to your affiliate one on the same product) - $40 is too much for 200k views. Maybe it is time to set your own host, using Google Cloud or a Virtual Private server in a place such as Dreamhost or Hostgator - Membership fees won't work. Few people would be willing to pay, specially when talking about newcomers
I understand you. I also had a forum on bilingual children. Even though it was not expensive to maintain, I was wasting a lot of time deleting spam. As Facebook groups got popular, people also lost their interest in forums. Many forums that are still strong are used mostly by people hiding their identities.
This is really interesting. Here English is the minority language. When my 5yo son was 2, we traveled to the USA, and it was an important moment for him to see that English was a real language, not something that was coming from just me and the TV. And as I don't like to travel just to be a tourist, I managed to meet friends and live the place, not just seeing it. It was wonderful. I went to playgrounds where my son could interact with other kids. At first he was addressing the other kids in Portuguese. After telling him sometimes he had to speak in English, he understood. We did the same when he was turning 4. Now every month he asks me when we're gonna do that again.
As I mentioned on the post, it was natural to me, but then when people started to question it I wondered if I was doing something wrong. Now 5 years later I have no regrets and my 8-month-old baby is on the same path.
Consistency is key. In the beginning I realized how poor my baby vocabulary was. I had no idea how to say diaper, pacifier...but I learned on the go.
Welcome Lydia, and congrats on your baby! Greetings from Brazil! I'm sure she will learn Spanish as she will learn it from the community and you.
As for when others are around, specially family, I usually don't care unless it is something I'm usually addressing specifically to my children. I only use the non-target language when they are supposed to understand. So far I had no problems. Good luck!
Thanks Adam for such a warm welcome. And yes, perseverance has been the key. Perserverance and consistency. So for the last 5 years we've been avoiding TV in the majority language, which is easy nowadays with Netflix. We also schedule playdates as we can and the only few moments I speak in Portuguese with him are when there is a third person that is also in the same conversation.
I've known Bilingual Monkeys and this forum for a long time and now with a new baby I'm back and it is time for me to introduce myself.
I'm from Brazil and I have two boys, one is 5 years old and the other is turning 8 months today.
I am raising both speaking English, using OPOL. My wife and all others speak in Portuguese with them. The big boy is doing great in both languages. 5 years ago I started doing this because I wanted to and it felt natural to me. But then I got some criticism and I decided to study about it. People were saying I should stick to my mother tongue. When trying to find resources and forums, it was hard to find support for this specific scenario and then I created a forum, which was called nnsparents.com but with time people stopped using it and I shut it down.
Now five years later I see a lot of changes. A lot of people are in the same boat as me, it seems. Or maybe it is just my perception. I love to help and I'm here to learn and also help people in the same situation. One thing I see today is that too many parents don't go further because they simply don't know what is out there. So to help us as parents I created a website called 4mySunshine which is a place where people can add reference to educational resources and vote on them, and in this way it is easy to find what is popular in each category. I created there entries for Adam's blog and book so make sure to help other parents find it by voting on them (clicking on the heart icon).
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Angela: So sorry for your loss. She was a great woman. I hope you feel a bit better. Kisses from Spain.
Apr 22, 2018 23:34:43 GMT 9
Mayken: We visited a Loire Valley château yesterday. Our daughter got a kids' activity booklet and we parents got the regular tour booklet in French. She asked for one in German (our ml). When I later asked her why, she said "Because I'm a German-speaker!"
Apr 23, 2018 23:23:36 GMT 9
Nellie: Haha love it Mayken! The best thing is - she is right!
Apr 24, 2018 5:45:09 GMT 9
Mayken: My daughter's ml homework for this week included baking a cake - there's a cake in the story they read, and after each chapter there are questions and tasks, and the current chapter has the step-by-step recipe. She's to bring the cake to school too.
May 1, 2018 23:48:48 GMT 9
Amy: What a nice original homework! Makes such a change from standard homework, and I wouldn't be surprised if kids remember more from it! I like your bilingual school Mayken! Lucky little girl, and lucky Mummy!
May 2, 2018 0:00:43 GMT 9
Mayken: ml cake homework update: About half the class brought cake (8 out of 15), not all of them were the cake from the book recipe, but my daughter's was the most popular. (Maybe because we added food colouring and topped it with chocolate icing and smarties?)
May 4, 2018 5:58:10 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Cake is definitely my favorite kind of homework!
May 4, 2018 11:28:51 GMT 9
Jana: One of the best parts of having kids in bilingual school was getting Mother's Day cards in two languages! (With less-than-perfect spelling in both!) Ha!
May 15, 2018 9:16:08 GMT 9
Amy: (Twice) Lucky you Jana! So nice to read exciting pieces of news like yours!
May 16, 2018 5:46:25 GMT 9
Mayken: I still have that to look forward to, Jana! Mother's Day in our ML country is two weeks later, and the ml teacher goes along with that date. (It was last Sunday in our ml country.)
May 16, 2018 5:58:11 GMT 9
Flir: Adam, uh oh. Time waits for no one. I'm very sorry to hear that. Stay strong man, your kids are looking up to you to give them as much as your parents gave you once. Best wishes.
May 24, 2018 20:11:03 GMT 9