I've known Bilingual Monkeys and this forum for a long time and now with a new baby I'm back and it is time for me to introduce myself.
I'm from Brazil and I have two boys, one is 5 years old and the other is turning 8 months today.
I am raising both speaking English, using OPOL. My wife and all others speak in Portuguese with them. The big boy is doing great in both languages. 5 years ago I started doing this because I wanted to and it felt natural to me. But then I got some criticism and I decided to study about it. People were saying I should stick to my mother tongue. When trying to find resources and forums, it was hard to find support for this specific scenario and then I created a forum, which was called nnsparents.com but with time people stopped using it and I shut it down.
Now five years later I see a lot of changes. A lot of people are in the same boat as me, it seems. Or maybe it is just my perception. I love to help and I'm here to learn and also help people in the same situation. One thing I see today is that too many parents don't go further because they simply don't know what is out there. So to help us as parents I created a website called 4mySunshine which is a place where people can add reference to educational resources and vote on them, and in this way it is easy to find what is popular in each category. I created there entries for Adam's blog and book so make sure to help other parents find it by voting on them (clicking on the heart icon).
Mario, welcome! It's great that you persisted with your bilingual goal--even when others doubted you--because it sounds like you've experienced a lot of success over the past five years! Good for you! And good for your family!
I look forward to your contributions here at our community. Perseverance is such a central part of the bilingual journey and I think your example can be very encouraging for other parents.
And many thanks for sharing my work at your website. Resources are a vital part of this quest so I commend your efforts to share useful materials with the world. Well done!
Mario, I send my best bilingual wishes from Japan to Brazil!
Adam Beck is the founder of Bilingual Monkeys and The Bilingual Zoo, and the author of the popular non-fiction book Maximize Your Child's Bilingual Ability amzn.to/22XKuCt and the humorous novel How I Lost My Ear amzn.to/2EsjVRS, both available worldwide.
Thanks Adam for such a warm welcome. And yes, perseverance has been the key. Perserverance and consistency. So for the last 5 years we've been avoiding TV in the majority language, which is easy nowadays with Netflix. We also schedule playdates as we can and the only few moments I speak in Portuguese with him are when there is a third person that is also in the same conversation.
Hi! I'm Daniella and I find the same problems raising my two kids in English and Portuguese! But honestly Mario, as a bilingualism lover, I never listened to negative comments and never cared what others say as well! My son is 9 and got his first certificate in English and can speak both languages naturally! I'm very proud of myself!
P.S. I'm reading Maximize Your Child's Bilingual Ability (Adam Beck) and it's awesome! Give it a try! Good luck!
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Mayken: I'm wearing my language police hat today - when I realized the movie my daughter was watching on the phone was in ML I told her to stop. I later asked her dad to remove all ML content from the phone. Screentime is ml only!
Mar 27, 2018 23:00:03 GMT 9
Amy: Right you are Mayken!
Mar 28, 2018 1:43:20 GMT 9
Marisa: Way to go, Mayken! That's the (bilingual) spirit
Mar 29, 2018 0:55:54 GMT 9
Kristin T.: Will check out your podcast interview on my next run!
Mar 30, 2018 23:24:37 GMT 9
Mayken: My daughter brought home her ml report card (she gets a separate one from the regular report card at her bilingual school), and it's straight A's! (Better than her marks in ML on the main report card.) I'm so proud!!!
Mar 31, 2018 6:10:44 GMT 9
Amy: Gratuliere (Congratulations) Mayken!!
Mar 31, 2018 16:54:17 GMT 9
Mayken: Thank you, Amy! As a reward, we allowed her to purchase a big item from her Christmas money--a Playmobil house, with which she now plays in ml!
Apr 4, 2018 3:37:31 GMT 9
Amy: Reward all the way round . Bilingual education can be a virtuous circle
Apr 4, 2018 5:26:18 GMT 9
Nellie: What great news, Mayken!
Apr 5, 2018 4:36:26 GMT 9
Raquel: I totally missed this. Congratulations, Mayken!! You have reason to be proud
Apr 10, 2018 20:08:02 GMT 9
Mayken: Thanks everyone! Today my daughter helped a classmate finish her ml homework just before school - all in ml. (My daughter had finished hers the day before at home.)
Apr 11, 2018 3:58:56 GMT 9
Raquel: I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's passing, Adam. She sounds like an amazing woman. Sending you a big hug from Madrid.
Apr 12, 2018 18:16:38 GMT 9
Marie: I am sorry to hear about your mother Adam. Thinking of you and your family.
Apr 13, 2018 4:25:21 GMT 9
Jana: What a beautiful tribute you wrote to your mother. Sending condolences from the SF Bay Area!
Apr 14, 2018 5:34:03 GMT 9
Kristin T.: I enjoyed reading your post about your mother. Those were some amazing photos to cherish forever. I am sorry for your loss. I know it's ever the more painful having been an expat so long. Take care & be kind to yourself.
Apr 16, 2018 2:24:35 GMT 9
Nellie: I'm so sorry to read about your mother Adam. She sounds like an incredible woman. Your friends across the world are thinking of you and your family!
Apr 17, 2018 0:50:25 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Thank you, everyone, for your warm expressions of sympathy on the loss of my mother. Your friendship and support has meant a lot to me at this challenging time.
Apr 17, 2018 7:44:14 GMT 9