Hi, have any of you used an au pair to help with language progress. If yes, any tips? How helpful were they? We are getting a summer French au pair and hoping she can help the kids progress in French during the summer. My daughter started at French Bilingual School in January and my son will start in September. Her French teacher said she still has catching up to do, as the other kids have been there twice as long and most have French parents/parent. We do not speak French, but I am learning as she learns. I am sure she is learning more then me, but I am learning what I can (basic phrases and tons of vocab). Anyway, we have an au pair coming and I am hoping it will help encourage the kids to speak more French and feel more comfortable. My son isn't shy, but my daughter is a little shy speaking it. The au pair is aware we are having her so she can speak only French to the kids and in front of the kids. I said when the kids are asleep or not around I am happy to speak in English to her.
We have an au pair for the first time since August 2016. The impact on language was AMAZING. Some advice: have a very clear discussion about you wanting him/her to speak the ml. It is important that your kids code him/her as ml, and you create the "need." The system of speaking ML when kids are nowhere near is perfect. We did the same. If you can fold in singing music together, playing games in French, reading together in French, you should see a huge effect. Good luck...and enjoy!
Thanks so much, happy to hear its helped you a lot. We are hoping it helps. We definately plan on her reading to the kids in French a lot! And of course music, games. I am hoping we have a good experience so we can get an au pair for longer the next time.
We currently have a ml babysitter for our daughter every weekday afternoon from 3.30-6. We arranged for her to finish crèche at 3.30 for the express purpose of increasing her exposure to ml1, and it definitely helps - just hearing someone other than her parents speak in the ml means that it becomes more of a "legitimate" language in her mind, I think!
She does know that the babysitter speaks the ML, and she (my daughter) tends to speak a lot of the time to her (the babysitter) in ML, but we definitely notice that she also comes up with expressions in ml1 that she must have heard from the babysitter, so it is definitely helping!
I told my kids the au pair does not understand a word of English and I explained to the au pair that we are going to pretend she doesn't speak English. I hope this lasts so the kids can try to speak French as much as possible! Not sure it will work, but we will see. At least they will get a lot of exposure to French with the au pair living with us.
We have a German (ml) nanny for our 2.2 year old; I'm bilingual, her Dad is English only and we live in London.
It works brilliantly.
Small Girl knows that our nanny (who is awesome and we'd love her even if she wasn't ml) can speak ML, but nanny pretty much only speaks to her in ml. Small Girl is code-switching a lot at the moment ("No, not Erdbeeren!" "Go Spielplatz!") - she seems to be about 3-6 months behind in her German compared to her English, in that she seems to only have German nouns but the filler words in English. Supernanny takes her to German playgroups, has found a couple of other German-speaking nannies of kids of a similar age so they have German speaking playdates... in short - our bilingual journey would have stopped a long time ago if we hadn't made a conscious choice for our childcare provision (while I'm at work) to be ml-"only". Plus I get to play the fun game of "do you know what this is called? And do you know what [nanny] calls it?"
I've also got personal experience on the other side - my parents (bilingual but English preferred) had German au pairs for 5 years when my sister was little, and we all spoke German together in front of au pairs and English amongst ourselves; my German certainly benefited and my sister grew up nicely bilingual (until she started going to ML-only school and we didn't have au pairs any more).
My tips would be: - make sure you get someone you'd be comfortable with even if they weren't helping on the bilingual journey! - be really clear in terms of expectations of language use with the kids, not just conversation, but books, music, playgroups (?), playdates - if you can empower the au pair to help you with the bilingual journey, they may have some good ideas!
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Amy: Just received your novel Adam, just in time for the weekend! I already read 3 chapters and am loving the style! Congrats!
Feb 10, 2018 6:25:05 GMT 9
Adam Beck: That's so nice to hear, Amy! I look forward to more impressions as you continue reading!
Feb 10, 2018 10:46:14 GMT 9
Mayken: After writing a letter in the ML to her new friend for whom it is the ml, my daughter is now on the phone with her friend from ml country. (And hiding in her room with my phone. No more phone cords to hold her back.)
Feb 11, 2018 23:13:29 GMT 9
Nellie: Book ordered Adam!
Feb 15, 2018 6:20:36 GMT 9
Nellie: Mayken - so cute! The terrible teens are approaching!
Feb 15, 2018 6:21:21 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Nellie, thank you! I hope you enjoy it and I look forward to your impressions!
Feb 15, 2018 6:34:04 GMT 9
Wojtek: I found sample Eiken tests on grade 5 and 4 (There was Adam's article) and did the first part with my daughter (20 questions). On Grade 5 she did 16 of 20 correctly and on grade 4: 12 of 20. Not so bad though. She failed those where grammar was included.
Feb 15, 2018 20:43:25 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Wojtek, your daughter is still very young so I would say those are really positive results! Your efforts are clearly producing a lot of progress. Good for you, and good for your daughter!
Feb 16, 2018 7:52:23 GMT 9
Undraa: A big congrats from my end to you for your new book Adam!
Feb 16, 2018 16:50:56 GMT 9
Wojtek: Big thanks, Adam. Those tests on grade 5 are so basic but anyway they prove that my girl understands them and knows the answers. That was quite interesting experience.
Feb 16, 2018 16:54:32 GMT 9
Wojtek: Congratulations on your book, Adam! I read the beginning on Amazon and as always I have the impression you took several pages from the dictionary with a range of sophisticated words and just put them in. That's why the book will be very valuable for me.
Feb 16, 2018 17:01:19 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Wojtek, thanks! Even if you're unfamiliar with some of the vocabulary, I think the lively story will carry you through the book. I hope you enjoy it, and also find it useful for your English!
Feb 16, 2018 18:43:12 GMT 9
Dani: Hi everyone, It has been a while... Congrats on your new book Adam! Would love to get a copy too.
Feb 17, 2018 8:30:36 GMT 9