My 2 and a half year old doesn't seem to understand "what" questions (what did you do today? What did you eat?) a lot of the time - she just keeps replying "Si, si" every time I repeat my question. Same thing when my husband asks the question in French, and we're not sure what she does when the question is asked in Spanish.
If I ask her "what's that?", or even "what's that in English? (after she's said it in another language), she responds correctly, so on some level she must understand what it means.
Is this normal at this age? Or is it a multiple languages issue (or just her!)?
Each of those questions are quite different so it might not be that she's not understanding the ''what" but that she has to learn about each question separately. Also they're very open questions (ie there are many possible correct answers) so they're harder to answer than a closed question requiring a simple yes or no. Older children at school will often not reply to those questions or say "I don't know" or "nothing" because it feels like too much effort to remember or to construct an answer. As a primary teacher I've spoken to many anxious parents worried their child is not eating in school or bored and friendless because they're not answering those questions. One way to teach her this is to model it. You can use real situations where you know what she's done/eaten. You can also use toys/puppets. Play a game with them and then ask the toy/puppet what they did or ate and you put on a voice for them to answer. You can then ask your daughter the same question and see if she answers. If she doesn't give her a choice ie maybe she ate a banana and you can ask did you eat an orange or a banana. She's still very young so even monolingual children might not answer well at this stage but after lots of practice she should be able to learn.
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Adam Beck: Mayken, she'll be trilingual before you know it! (I recommend "One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish"!)
Jun 3, 2017 7:16:29 GMT 9
Mayken: Adam, that was what I thought would be the easiest, but she disagreed!
Jun 4, 2017 18:43:54 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Mayken, the text of "Hop on Pop" may be easier to read, but I love the creative craziness of the "One Fish" book.
Jun 4, 2017 21:12:09 GMT 9
Mayken: My 6yo is off on a 5-day class trip in ML. I made sure the activity book for the trip and one of her reading books are in ml. Also, ml grandma will send her a letter, and she has a postcard she's to write to ml grandma.
Jun 5, 2017 23:16:12 GMT 9
Mayken: 6yo's teacher asked parents to write 2 letters, one the kids gets from the teacher today, the other we're to send by mail. I mailed my ml letter today.
Jun 7, 2017 0:25:14 GMT 9
Amy: My 1 year old is starting to talk and has been using 2 new ml1 words since last Sunday <3
Jun 8, 2017 5:27:04 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Mayken and Amy, sounds like fun times for you both!
Jun 8, 2017 6:06:59 GMT 9
Mayken: Yay Amy! - I'm curious about the letter my 6-year-old wrote us during her class trip (teacher-supervised activity). Will there be ml in it? I hope it arrives before she comes back!
Jun 8, 2017 18:56:16 GMT 9
Joanna: My workshop is planned for Saturday, thanks for your replies...I'll post after. My daughter was singing along to our "theme song" so I have renewed hope
Jun 9, 2017 14:18:39 GMT 9
Mayken: My daughter's letter from her class trip arrived - she wrote one message in ML to Dad and another in ml to me. Her first letter in ml without a ml person to help her!
Jun 11, 2017 18:40:08 GMT 9
Nellie: Congrats Mayken, Amy and Joanna!
Jun 12, 2017 10:12:42 GMT 9
Adam Beck: Wonderful, Mayken! Those letters are instant keepsakes that I'm sure will be read again many years from now...
Jun 12, 2017 14:57:15 GMT 9
Amy: Joanna, how did Saturday go? Mayken, enjoy this beautiful keepsake
Jun 12, 2017 20:36:29 GMT 9
Joanna: It went really well! I'll make a good post soon with details
Jun 15, 2017 14:04:30 GMT 9
Amy: Looking forward to it Joanna!
Jun 16, 2017 1:39:43 GMT 9
Mayken: My mom got a lovely postcard in ml too from my 6-year-old daughter on her field trip! Another precious keepsake! (OK, I prepared the card with address and stamp ahead of time, but she did the writing all by herself.)
Jun 19, 2017 23:28:01 GMT 9
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Jun 21, 2017 8:49:35 GMT 9
Mayken: Our ml section will have a flea market stand at the school fair with used books, games, DVDs and CDs for sale. I donated 2 games, promised my daughter she could choose something. (Proceeds are for the school's ml section.) Love the idea!
Jun 22, 2017 23:23:00 GMT 9